Friday, October 16, 2015

Kindness



KINDNESS

Psalm 89:2: “I will declare that Your love stands firm forever, that you established Your faithfulness in Heaven itself.”

            Jewish tradition has a well-known mantra that goes like this: “I will declare—the world was built on kindness.”  The story tells that when God created the world, it was teetering like a chair on three legs.  So God added a fourth leg.  A kindness leg. 

            Kids take pride in learning to dress and tie shoe laces.  It never dawns on us that we had been totally dependent on others’ kindness until then.  We even needed help to be born!  Someone had to feed, change our diapers, wash, and protect us from harm.  Kindness got us to dressing ourselves independently.
            From that point, we depended on kind acts of teaching and guiding until we grew up.  We liked that independence.  We never gave kindness another thought.  We can do for ourselves!  When we earn our livelihood, showing off nice clothes, driving hot cars and living in fine houses, we become proud.

            Fast-forward fifty years. 
            Kids are grown.  Employers demand we retire.  Bodies misbehave.

            Uh oh.

            Time to swallow one’s pride.
            Why can’t the children visit more often with my grandkids?  Will my retirement fund last the rest of my life?  After all my surgeries, how will I keep going?  How can I afford my meds?  Once again, we’re suddenly dependent—on other’s kindness. 

            That’s life.  We’re all enrolled in its school.  And it doesn’t play favorites.  Everybody lives through challenging times.  Everybody needs help from people around them.  Everybody needs acts of kindness to get us to the finish line.  Sometimes a smile is all the encouragement we need to keep going. 
           
            In the end, the dates of one’s birth and death is shown as birth-death.  The hyphen separating the dates is one’s life.  We’d like to believe: birth-independence- death.  But the truth is: birth-kindness-death.  All our worlds would fall if God hadn’t added the fourth leg of kindness. 

            Because the world is built on kindness, people have kindness built into our DNA.  We can’t survive without the love and support from others around us.  

Take Home Nugget

            God hates independence because it makes His kids proud.  He never left our side in sixty +years of living.  He always watched over us and heard our prayers.  We were ALWAYS dependent on His kindness.  May we spread kindness.  That begins the ripple effect that stabilizes the world on the kindness leg.  

What a pleasant surprise when someone is kind
When I smack myself against a wall!
Why should she mind
When I’m not standing tall?
People get themselves in a bind
Where lives don't roll like a ball.
And another’s kindness is a precious find
That prevents our sure fall!

Adapted from Holy Land Moments Daily Devotions.  Rabbi Yechiel Eckstein.  Devotion@Holylandmoments.org. September 13, 2015.

Devoted to my friend in Christ, Bonita Cox.
J.D. Griffith






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